Hey Dollface!

bitter-and-blonde:

I can’t fucking take having adhd it’s miserable because my meds wear off and literally everything bores me. Which sounds trival , but you have to understand- nothing interests me. Nothing. There is nothing I can think about right now that gives me any kind of joy or desire or even just holds my thoughts. It literally is boring to be alive and I hate it, and I wish I was on my meds all the time.

Ummm I actually figured out something that helps a bit but its sexual esq (kind of its more about …idk stimulation) so I’m not going to write it out but if u wanna know message me cus it might help someone else

I can’t fucking take having adhd it’s miserable because my meds wear off and literally everything bores me. Which sounds trival , but you have to understand- nothing interests me. Nothing. There is nothing I can think about right now that gives me any kind of joy or desire or even just holds my thoughts. It literally is boring to be alive and I hate it, and I wish I was on my meds all the time.

lumpenspaceproletariat:

feelknower93:

equivalent experiences: having to see a hotter guy date a girl who you want to date, being harassed

if sexism hurt men more than it benefited them it wouldn’t exist

lumpenspaceproletariat:

feelknower93:

equivalent experiences: having to see a hotter guy date a girl who you want to date, being harassed

if sexism hurt men more than it benefited them it wouldn’t exist

bitter-and-blonde:

crying over suzanne at 4 am

Oh my fucking god I can’t take it

I know :(!!!! A lot of people hate her but I just feel so bad for her all of the time :(

I can’t hate her!!! Vee is excellent at manipulation, and Suzanne is super vulnerable. It’s fucking hard as hell to deal with mental illness, and people also take advantage of that. She’s so lost and lonely, and Vee just fucked her over!!! I don’t know, I just think it’s bullshit to blame her for everything.

crying over suzanne at 4 am

jerkofficial:

sayahomu:

nosdrinker:

I stopped reading here like what does this mean

reverse ableism

omg poor people who are not mentally ill

jerkofficial:

sayahomu:

nosdrinker:

I stopped reading here like what does this mean

reverse ableism

omg poor people who are not mentally ill

bitter-and-blonde:

quiltbagging:

pan/poly person: bis should change their definition (which fits me perfectly) because their presence is overshadowing mine and making straights and others lump me in with them and they do nothing about it

bi person: you have no authority to tell me what to do with my…

I really really need pansexuals to stop acting like bisexual hasn’t meant a bunch of different shit for ages. Does it make shit complicated? Sure, but it’s our history. Why do pansexuals get the right to define bisexuality? Why do they get to tell us our history is irrelevant? How can I appropriate a definition that’s been used in the bisexual community since it was formed? I wouldn’t stop pansexuals from defining themselves in similar terms, because I can’t define your sexuality for me.

It fits me perfectly too. Just as perfectly. I just choose to identify as bisexual. Are arguing that I don’t fit that definition? How would you know? Like honestly stop implying that when bisexuals say their attracted to ‘same and other genders’ they don’t actually feel that way.

quiltbagging:

pan/poly person: bis should change their definition (which fits me perfectly) because their presence is overshadowing mine and making straights and others lump me in with them and they do nothing about it

bi person: you have no authority to tell me what to do with my…

I really really need pansexuals to stop acting like bisexual hasn’t meant a bunch of different shit for ages. Does it make shit complicated? Sure, but it’s our history. Why do pansexuals get the right to define bisexuality? Why do they get to tell us our history is irrelevant? How can I appropriate a definition that’s been used in the bisexual community since it was formed? I wouldn’t stop pansexuals from defining themselves in similar terms, because I can’t define your sexuality for me.

forever-falling-forward:

bitter-and-blonde:

forever-falling-forward:

Attraction to “same and other” genders is polysexuality.

Attraction to “same and other” genders is polysexuality.

Attraction to “same and other” genders is polysexuality.

Stop claiming definitions that are not yours so that you can feel more inclusive….

The op is some of grossest shit I’ve seen today. Identify as pan, do whatever, but don’t fucking tell me what my sexuality is. I’m appropriating pansexuality by being attracted to genders besides men and women? Really, that’s what your saying? My sexual orientation is appropriating. I don’t have the ‘right’ to be attracted to anyone but men and women?? Because what, pansexuals created sexual attraction to non binary genders, is that your argument? Are you gonna smack me every time I flirt with someone who’s non binary? How do you intend police this, exactly.

At what point did I say male/female? Please tell me.

I said that your current definition could use some rewriting because it’s taking others off the map. That’s it.

I never denied biphobia or erasure. I never even suggested an alternative, because that’s up to you guys. Ain’t my place.

I just said you have the most visibility of any multisexual group, and maybe you could take some steps to help the rest of us poor fucks out.

For the love of god how fucking much did you read into this.

Okay then I guess I literally don’t understand what you’re saying. What definition are bisexuals supposed to use, according to you?
How/why do you justify arguing that ‘the same and others’ description is more accurate for pansexuals than bisexuals? Like seriously, how would you know? How can you tell me that isn’t an accurate description for many bisexuals? I mean, I know it is for me, so why are you telling me it’s not? (Not even getting into the fact that there’s a history of bisexuals describing themselves in this way).
Why do you get to tell me what being a bisexual is, when you aren’t one? I wouldn’t tell you what it means to be pansexual, because that’s not how I identify, though I do feel that we have a lot of common ground.